This is my third blog. Though I was thoroughly disappointed that my previous blogs didn’t get an accustomed response as I thought. Though I don’t care... or do I ..No I don’t...(EGO !!!! damn!!)..Yes I do!!!!
But I had a ray of hope in my mind because someone… someone.. (oh! You know whom I am talking about??) No????? This means u didn’t read my second blog Mission Happiness with due interest. (If you want to know refer to paragraph fifth third line and paragraph sixth fourth line) oh! ho! I didn’t even complete the sentence, that’s her magic upon me :p. Now I should concentrate on completing my sentence.. but I am out of words… just wanted to say …that SOMEONE liked it… that was quite enough for me :p(yes it was, no it wasn’t, yes!!! (ego again!))
Today I just wanted to narrate a short story about to friends FRIEND1 and FRIEND2 (we will call them f1 and f2)
F1 and f2 were great friends(though using the word GrEaT is an underestimation of there friendship according to me). They always thought what made them so good friends. As in every friendship there are times of joy and sorrows, and the friendship of f1 and f2 was no different.
They fought like anything, hurt each other, sometimes to the extent that they even stopped talking to each other, at times they said so brash words to each other (and bRaSh means BRASH…Bloody rash!!!!! ) as to as the worst of the enemies wouldn’t have said so. But one thing was common, whatever may be the case there care for each other was as intense as there fights(even more intense)really!!!!!!..
One day
F1: f2 what makes our friendship so special???
F2: ??????? don’t know but it is special
F1: yes! You are special that’s why….
F2: hmmm….
F2: you also ok ok! :p
Another day
F2: you have hurt me a lot
F1: you are not the only person who has got hurt
F1: now don’t talk to me ever again..
F2: k! its easy for you ….
F1: yes very easy for me!!
(as can be noted above “SERIOUS FIGHT”)
Later that day
F2: you were going somewhere???? Take care and enjoy
F1: no program cancelled!!!!!!
(can be noted above “CARE” even after such a fierce fight and fierce means fierce not to mention that again!)
Next day
F2: good day (through messages on cell phone)
F1: good day (through messages on cell phone)
(Care still exits)
Next day
F1: can we talk??
F2: you only said we will not talk forever
F1: and you agreed to it…..
.
.
.
.
.
And finally everything got alright between them (everything??? Hope so)
F1: I really don’t know why we fight and just fight??
F2: what makes our friendship so special???
Moral: A friendship is not made special by doing things for your friend that are “SPECIAL” or extraordinary but it becomes special by doing “SIMPLE” things “SPECIALLY”.
A friendship is not a relationship where two perfect people meet, it’s a relationship where two imperfect people learn to live and adjust and improve upon each others “IMPERFECTIONS”
We sometimes take decisions in haste like F1 did by saying: “We will not talk ever again” without noticing the fact that his decision will also affect F2 (more than himself)
and f2 also agreed silently without even saying who are you to take a decision for both of us???? How can u say “we will not talk??” using the word “we” means f1 was taking a decision for both of themselves…. That’s not correct!!! And f2 with his silent approval did a bigger mistake!!!
We often forget the basis of every fRiEnDsHiP is FRIENDS…. Therefore while taking any decision in friendship we should be aware of the fact that any sole decision of ours have its due influence on our friend also….that’s why…I just want to say while taking any decision in friendship you are not the only person who face the consequences of the decision but there is also the other person (silent acceptor) of your decision who suffers with you…. And many times even more than you. Therefore always be aware of the fact…. Its always……. FRIEND-2-SHIP
Hope so my f1 and f2 have understood there friend2ship as I have understood mine…really….hats off!!!! To my (silent acceptor) who made me realize my friend2ship…
Oh!!! forgot to answer what makes my f1 and f2’s friendship SPECIAL???????????
Hmm.. hmm… I think…. There fights…. Keeps them going on!!!…. So my dear f1 and f2…fight….. fight but with love :p))))))
But I had a ray of hope in my mind because someone… someone.. (oh! You know whom I am talking about??) No????? This means u didn’t read my second blog Mission Happiness with due interest. (If you want to know refer to paragraph fifth third line and paragraph sixth fourth line) oh! ho! I didn’t even complete the sentence, that’s her magic upon me :p. Now I should concentrate on completing my sentence.. but I am out of words… just wanted to say …that SOMEONE liked it… that was quite enough for me :p(yes it was, no it wasn’t, yes!!! (ego again!))
Today I just wanted to narrate a short story about to friends FRIEND1 and FRIEND2 (we will call them f1 and f2)
F1 and f2 were great friends(though using the word GrEaT is an underestimation of there friendship according to me). They always thought what made them so good friends. As in every friendship there are times of joy and sorrows, and the friendship of f1 and f2 was no different.
They fought like anything, hurt each other, sometimes to the extent that they even stopped talking to each other, at times they said so brash words to each other (and bRaSh means BRASH…Bloody rash!!!!! ) as to as the worst of the enemies wouldn’t have said so. But one thing was common, whatever may be the case there care for each other was as intense as there fights(even more intense)really!!!!!!..
One day
F1: f2 what makes our friendship so special???
F2: ??????? don’t know but it is special
F1: yes! You are special that’s why….
F2: hmmm….
F2: you also ok ok! :p
Another day
F2: you have hurt me a lot
F1: you are not the only person who has got hurt
F1: now don’t talk to me ever again..
F2: k! its easy for you ….
F1: yes very easy for me!!
(as can be noted above “SERIOUS FIGHT”)
Later that day
F2: you were going somewhere???? Take care and enjoy
F1: no program cancelled!!!!!!
(can be noted above “CARE” even after such a fierce fight and fierce means fierce not to mention that again!)
Next day
F2: good day (through messages on cell phone)
F1: good day (through messages on cell phone)
(Care still exits)
Next day
F1: can we talk??
F2: you only said we will not talk forever
F1: and you agreed to it…..
.
.
.
.
.
And finally everything got alright between them (everything??? Hope so)
F1: I really don’t know why we fight and just fight??
F2: what makes our friendship so special???
Moral: A friendship is not made special by doing things for your friend that are “SPECIAL” or extraordinary but it becomes special by doing “SIMPLE” things “SPECIALLY”.
A friendship is not a relationship where two perfect people meet, it’s a relationship where two imperfect people learn to live and adjust and improve upon each others “IMPERFECTIONS”
We sometimes take decisions in haste like F1 did by saying: “We will not talk ever again” without noticing the fact that his decision will also affect F2 (more than himself)
and f2 also agreed silently without even saying who are you to take a decision for both of us???? How can u say “we will not talk??” using the word “we” means f1 was taking a decision for both of themselves…. That’s not correct!!! And f2 with his silent approval did a bigger mistake!!!
We often forget the basis of every fRiEnDsHiP is FRIENDS…. Therefore while taking any decision in friendship we should be aware of the fact that any sole decision of ours have its due influence on our friend also….that’s why…I just want to say while taking any decision in friendship you are not the only person who face the consequences of the decision but there is also the other person (silent acceptor) of your decision who suffers with you…. And many times even more than you. Therefore always be aware of the fact…. Its always……. FRIEND-2-SHIP
Hope so my f1 and f2 have understood there friend2ship as I have understood mine…really….hats off!!!! To my (silent acceptor) who made me realize my friend2ship…
Oh!!! forgot to answer what makes my f1 and f2’s friendship SPECIAL???????????
Hmm.. hmm… I think…. There fights…. Keeps them going on!!!…. So my dear f1 and f2…fight….. fight but with love :p))))))
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